Dating!!

So I've recently made a major breakthrough in my relationship....I'm calling it a breakthrough because all feelings and truths were laid open and bare, it was finally an eye-opening moment when I realized aha, this has been the problem all along.

>>>It's always been easy to point the finger and say its someone's fault but in reality the fault never lied between me or my partner....we simply didn't know how to love, how to date, how to be real and vulnerable.

On this journey to real love I'm gonna open up more than ever! It's scary and I'm not sure I'm fully prepared for what that may entail but I definitely want to put my best foot forward and prove that I'm in it 100%! Love for me means soooo many different things but above all it means: SACRIFICE and COMPROMISE! Being able to work with someone and give up something for the sake of peace, happiness and love :) I'm willing to set aside my pride, fears, insecurities, games, tricks, skepticism, hesistation, and worry in order to make it work....and that is not easy! I've been a girl through love spells and this is my third crack at it, so I'm hoping it's well worth the work. This man will be the death of me I'm sure and I know I'm a tough cookie to crack but he takes it all in stride and I love him for that.

>>>So I decided for the next month I'm gonna delve head first into a  good read called: "The Conversation" by Hill Harper. This book is all about How men and women can build loving, trusting relationships and I think it may hold the answer to my dying questions and concerns. This book is a New York Bestseller and has gotten rave reviews. So we'll see what all the hype is about and I'll update this periodically with some learned lessons and epiphanies and changes within my expanding relationship. I wear many hats and today I am the student again, ready and willing to learn :)

Stay tuned....